Traditional weddings can be great, but it really depends on the person. If it is something that means alot to you and you can't picture your wedding going any other way or maybe its just a tradtion you want to continue to have a big wedding with all the things involved. I want to say that if you're someone who is on the fence and it's not that important to you for the tradintional aspects.... try thinking about a non-tradtional wedding. You can still have a reception and involve all the people you love, but maybe you don't have to start your marriage off in debt for a big event! It really just comes down to is that something you really want or are there other ways to celebrate and become one in marriage that doesn't involve SO much stress and money. Elopements are such a fun and intimate way to invlove family, but save on costs.
Everyone else is doing a traditional wedding.....
Society makes it out to be that things have to be done this way or that way when in reality it's how you and your significant other want YOUR wedding day to go. Too many times people allow family members and society pressure them into feeling like they HAVE to have a big wedding or do this or that. I'm here to tell you....You don't if you truly don't want to. Is it wrong to have a big wedding? NO, but if its going agaisnt what you truly want for yourself then I'd say yes. Honor that part of you its not always for the show...and what you can show off personally going in debt isn't worth it in my eyes. Thats my opinion, but just know there are other options and take the time to think about them all instead of just thinking this is how things have to go because everyone else is doing it or you feel pressured by others. Remeber it's YOUR day for the two of you.
Conclusion: I love all weddings they are all so special and so unique big or small. I don't want it to come across wrong, but working in this industry I see it too often people doing things to appease others instead of honoring what they truly want to do. They get stressed out and it completely takes away from the whole purpose of that day and how can you successfully enjoy the moments and be present when you're worried about everything under the sun.
GIVE IT SOME THOUGHT. <3
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